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IFS Intensives

An IFS Intensive is an extended therapy session with more time to explore a specific concern, internal conflict, or group of parts without being limited to a standard 50–55 minute session. The additional time allows space to slow down, stay with what emerges, and talk through what comes next.

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Adults 18+ · New & existing clients · Virtual throughout North Carolina · Burlington coming soon · Private pay · Contact for pricing

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WHY AN INTENSIVE?

A longer window for focused work.

Longer is not automatically better. But there are times when having more time in one session can make it easier to explore a specific issue without feeling rushed by the end of a standard therapy hour.

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More time to understand the different parts involved without feeling as though you have to rush toward an answer.

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More room to stay with one pattern, conflict, or reaction as it becomes clearer.

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Time at the end to reflect on what came up and talk through what might be useful next.

A PLACE TO FOCUS

What might you bring to an intensive?

You do not need a perfectly defined goal before you begin. An intensive can start with a pattern, conflict, reaction, or part of yourself that you want to understand differently.

A recurring pattern that feels hard to change

Strong self-criticism or shame

Feeling internally divided or conflicted

A relationship pattern that keeps repeating

Addictive or compulsive patterns

A major decision or transition

INTERNAL FAMILY SYSTEMS

What if the parts you struggle with are trying to help?

Internal Family Systems, or IFS, understands the mind as containing different parts that can carry different emotions, beliefs, impulses, and ways of responding.

Rather than treating those reactions simply as problems to eliminate, IFS invites curiosity about why they developed, what they may be trying to accomplish, and whether they still need to work in the same way.

HOW AN INTENSIVE WORKS

Begin with a focus. Follow what emerges.

The session follows what is actually happening rather than trying to move through a predetermined script.

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Notice the parts

Identify the different reactions connected to the issue, including parts that want change, resist it, criticize, avoid, protect, or feel vulnerable.

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Choose a focus

You and Mike identify the part, conflict, or pattern that seems most useful to spend time with.

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Get curious

Explore what a part is doing, what it fears, and what it may want you to understand.

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Explore further

If the process naturally moves deeper, there may be an opportunity to work with older beliefs, emotions, or experiences. No particular outcome is required.

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Integrate

Leave time to reflect on what emerged, identify next steps, and consider what kind of follow-up would be useful.

TWO DIFFERENT FORMATS

Regular therapy or an IFS Intensive?

Individual Therapy

Typically 50–55 minutes

Often weekly or every other week

Ongoing support across different areas of life

IFS-informed work can be incorporated over time

IFS Intensive

Approximately three hours

A more defined area of focus

More time to explore one internal process

Can be stand-alone, periodic, or part of ongoing therapy

WHAT COMES NEXT

Have a plan for what comes after.

An intensive does not have to replace ongoing therapy. Some people schedule one intensive, others return periodically, continue working with Mike, or bring what came up back to their regular therapist.

Near the end of the session, you and Mike can talk about what kind of follow-up or continued support makes sense rather than assuming everything needs to be resolved in one session.

If coordination with another therapist would be useful, communication between providers would occur only with appropriate consent and releases in place.

IS AN INTENSIVE A GOOD FIT?

Start with a conversation.

An intensive may make sense if there is a particular concern or internal conflict you want to focus on, you are interested in IFS-informed work, and you would like more time than a standard therapy session provides.

A free 15–20 minute consultation gives you and Mike a chance to talk about what you want to work on and consider whether an Intensive or regular individual therapy seems like the better fit.

New clients complete a consultation before scheduling an IFS Intensive.

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